Letters From The Past

Thursday, June 1, 2017
Everyday comes with a new desire, a new wish, a new want. It may be a small one like get a new nail paint to a really big one like i want to buy a house for myself. If we actually start making a list of all our wishes we would actually want the world one day. And what is wrong in wanting everything. Won’t you be the happiest to find out that you have everything that you ever wanted. But that's not what happened in my case.

Few years back, i and my sister had an idea to write letters to the future us. So we did. We wrote the letters and sealed it. We decided to open them after 10 years. We both opened those letters few days back.

None of my wishes had come true. Oh no.. i am really glad they didn't come true. I might have been in a much settled and stable place if any of those wishes had come true. I might have been happy too. I might have ended up like every other women, happily ever after. I might have never known this side of me.

Talkin about the ‘this side of me’ very unstable, very moody, do not know where life is taking me, very very confused, very bad at taking decisions, sees the world in a very different way (which is somehow unacceptable by the so called sound people) and a bit lost. (but you need to be lost to be found :P)

Dude, positive aatma i am.. No doubt I lose track at times, but who doesn't. So what if i haven't achieved everything that you have within the particular time frame. You were never my competition. Infact i am not in competition with myself. See, what i wanted 10 years down the line is not what i want now. And yes, i do not know what i want in my life. This part keeps changing every now and then.When something goes wrong in your life, people say jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai. Why don't people say it when things go right in your life?

Take a pause, Take a break, Breath and shine again. Of Course things will go wrong. Your plan A might not work as per your expectations.(Mine never does) But you keep going on.


Sunday, January 8, 2017

Dear Women,

Choose a life you want. Live the way you want to. If you find eyes judging you.  Do not stop. Those judgy eyes did not have the courage to live their life. 

Women,  you are wonderful and powerful.  You tend to manage your life so well even with those mood swings. Your life is not easy.  It never has been. Cos you are a women. But you have not learnt to give up. Your home,  your office,  your friends. You know how to work through.  You know how to manage.

Then why give up this time?  No one tells you how to live your life.  No one tells you what to wear or what time to reach home.  You can take care of hundreds of issues. Then why not this one.

Time to stop being a victim.

You don't need the world to rescue you. You are your own savior. You are powerful.

Learn to defend.

And It’s again a Valentine Day

Friday, February 14, 2014
Fall In Love or Fall In A Pit….. Its all the Same
Songs of the Season: Kina Grannis’ “Be my Valentine” or Bruno Mars’ “Marry Me”.  Listen to these songs. And if u like them, sure you are in love and you are celebrating your Valentine Day.
It’s always a good feeling to fall in love with someone. Every single damn thing turns out to be romantic. Books, Music, Flowers, Chocolates, Rain, Sunrise, Sunset, Beach, Air….. Every single God damn thing looks beautiful. Red and Pink actually become colours… It feels that you are part of a fairy tale. Everything seems so right and bright. “Pehela Nasha Pehela Khumar… Naya pyar hai naya intezar…..” wala feeling bhi sahi hoti hai.

Love, Relationships, Break ups, Patch Ups has become a trend today. Who wasn’t in a relationship!! Who has never fallen in love!! I doubt if such a person exist. (And if u exist, please fall in love atleast once) Does love “the feeling” really exist… or it’s just the bloody hormones playing its games. Whatever it is… one should fall in love atleast once in their lifetime. Its an out of the world feeling. The world looks lovely. Actually everything looks
gorgeous. Dusre duniya ke log ban jate hai tab. My friends might be wondering that these words are coming out of me. But yes it is!!!!!!!! Love and relationships are two different
things. And I am talking about falling in love. I never regret falling in love. But a relationship sucks “big time”.
A person who has fallen in love once will always be in love… be it with the same person or a different one. But they would keep falling for it.
My friends told me that it’s a must that I put down my views on Valentine day in my blog. I sat down with a blank page for hours with no thought striking my mind. Love is complicated.. and so is the day and so is this topic.. I hate you people for making me write this. For people who are actually in love, it’s a valentine day every day. For people who are single, it’s just another day. And For people who just got single… It’s actually your Valentine Day :P  And about me I just love to see how the world celebrates this day.
Love is in the Air………..
Kuddos To Those in a Relationship and Cheers to all the SinGalzzzzzz
Happy Valentine Day to All.